Be A Real Man
Posted by Amber Lea
What does it mean to be a real man and a good father?
Young boys usually learn the most from what they see and hear from their fathers. It’s natural for them to want to imitate their dad. Then they begin to learn more from the world view. There are only a few relatively short years a father has to help guide his son into becoming a grown man. Fathers, teach your sons. The role model you are is based on what is in your own heart, and is the blue print that will shape the man your son becomes. Do you want him to follow God, or the world? There is no other choice.
Do you want to teach your son to be dishonest? Let him hear you lie.
Do you want to teach your son to be rude? Let him see you treat others harshly.
Do you want to teach your son to be lazy? Let him see you get others to take care of your messes.
Do you want to teach your son to be undependable? Let him see you change your mind frequently, and not keep your promises.
Do you want to teach your son to be disobedient and defiant? Don’t follow the rules when you don’t feel like it.
Do you want to teach your son to be honest and fair? Then show him how, be honest and fair, be a man of integrity. (1 Kings 9:4)
Do you want to teach your son to be helpful and kind? Then show him how, be a humble man of compassion. (Philippians 2:3)
Do you want to teach your son to be responsible and productive? Show him how, do your own work and help others too. (Isaiah 65:21-23)
Do you want your son to be dependable and trustworthy? Show him how, be a man of good character and be consistent. (Matthew 24:44-46)
Do you want to teach your son to follow Jesus? Then show him how, walk with Christ and your son will follow. (Luke 9:23)
Do you want to teach your son to be a real man? TEACH HIM HOW TO BE LIKE JESUS!
“…but as for me and my house, we shall serve the Lord”. (Joshua 24:15)
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